Don't Let The Holidays Make You Blue
The holidays can be a stressful time. The festivities can lead to anxiety related to excessive shopping for friends and family, finding time for social obligations, worrying about holiday debt, and trying to do too much. You can detour from your everyday routine, neglecting proper nutrition and regular exercise. These pressures can lead to the phenomenon known as holiday depression or the holiday blues.
For many suffering from depression, the depression peaks over the holidays. The unrealistic expectations of the season, time and financial pressures, missing loved ones, and reflecting on past events as the year comes to an end can all contribute.
It also is common to feel a holiday letdown after the holidays are over. The hectic holiday period and the feeling of being physically and emotionally drained can leave you with the sense of loss or frustration, and then that can turn into the blues.
The holiday blues can range from mild sadness during the holidays to severe depression, and they are often a normal reaction to life situations.
Holiday blues should not be confused with clinical depression. Clinical depression is a disorder that may need to be relieved with medication, while the holiday blues could require something as simple as a good listener. Clinical depression, however, can be triggered in a number of ways at or just after the holidays.
Keeping the blues away
The holiday blues may be alleviated with something as simple as getting enough rest. People actually lose sleep during the holidays and end up shortchanging themselves. Consequences of not getting enough sleep might be cloudy thinking, irritability, and inability to deal with everyday stress.
Other ways to help ease the blues are to eat a diet rich in fruits and vegetables and to start exercising. Also, make an effort to stay positive.
Tips to ease the blues
If you are experiencing holiday blues, try to decrease or alleviate them by doing these things:
- Talk honestly to someone.
- Limit alcohol intake.
- Stick within your normal life routine as much as possible.
- Set a realistic budget and then stick to it.
- Establish realistic goals and expectations.
- Do not label the season as a time to cure past problems.
- Don’t be afraid to say no. That means don’t attend parties when you don’t really have time, don’t take on obligations that will crowd your time and, don’t overextend yourself.
- Find time for yourself.
- Enjoy free holiday activities.
- Try to celebrate the holidays in a different way.
The holiday blues can be quite common, but if you are feeling especially down—for example, your sleep or your appetite is affected—contact your health care provider or visit Mental Health America for help and guidance. If you are thinking about suicide, call 911 or your health care provider immediately.
Read more tips for health and wellness at wellness.gwinnettmedicalcenter.org.